Why She Loves The Things You Hate, And How To Choose Gifts For Her
You're stumped about what to buy for her. You know she loves the things you hate, but you're not sure how to choose Romantic Gifts For Her. Relax, we've got you covered.
Understanding Your Partner's Likes and Dislikes
You know your partner better than anyone, so you probably have a pretty good idea of what she likes—and what she doesn't. But sometimes it's hard to understand why she loves the things she does, or to know what to get her for a gift.
Instead of trying to guess, ask her directly! Sit down and have a conversation about the things she loves, even if they seem like they're not your thing. You might be surprised at how much you have in common.
Once you know her interests, choosing a gift will be a lot easier. If you're still stuck, think about what she might need or want but hasn't splurged on for herself yet. A new pair of shoes? A nice watch? A Relationship Card Game? Whatever you choose, make sure it shows that you really understand and appreciate your partner for who she is.
Show Your Appreciation Through Thoughtful Gifts
You might not understand why she loves the things you hate, but that doesn't mean you can't show your appreciation for her by giving her a thoughtful gift.
The key to choosing the perfect gift for her is to think about what she loves, and what you know she hates. If you can find a way to merge the two, you'll be sure to hit a home run.
For example, if she loves reading but hates dealing with bookmarks, get her a set of metallic book charms. If he loves spending time in the kitchen but hates doing the dishes, get him a dishwasher tablet subscription. Or if she likes to get together at home with her girlfriends, get her a Copper Cocktail Set.
The bottom line is that it's not about what you think she'll like, it's about finding out what she loves and turning it into a gift.
Choosing the Right Gift That She'll Love
You might be at a loss for what to buy your girlfriend for her birthday, especially if she loves the things you hate. But don't worry, we're here to help.
The key to choosing the right gift for her is to think about what she loves, not what you like. Maybe she's a nature lover who would love a camping trip. Or maybe she's a movie buff who would love tickets to the new swanky theater downtown.
Whatever it is, put yourself in her shoes and think about what would make her happy. Then go with your gut and get her something she'll love.
Listening to Her Tastes and Preferences
One of the best ways to choose a gift for her is to listen to her tastes and preferences. Before you buy anything, think about what she likes and the things she’s said in the past. Chances are she has an opinion on everything from clothes to movies, so finding something that she will appreciate should be easy!
You can also take a look at her social media accounts or browse her favorite stores online. This will give you more insight into the types of items that she gravitates towards. Make sure that you pay attention to any style trends or items she’s commented on—that way you’ll know exactly what she likes!
What Not to Buy Her
As the old adage says, it's not what you buy her but how you present it. That said, there are certain items you should avoid when choosing gifts for her. For example, items like kitchen appliances and cleaning supplies would definitely send the wrong message and it's best to steer clear of those at all costs. Another item to be wary of buying is clothing without consulting her first—you don't want to be responsible for giving her something she won't wear! Finally, don't buy items that hint at criticism or advice. She'll appreciate a thoughtful gift far more than something meant to shame or judge her.
Creative Gifting Ideas for Her
So, let's get to the good stuff: creative gifting ideas for her! Now is the perfect time to get creative and put together something special that she’ll love. You don’t have to stick to traditional gifts like jewelry or flowers—you can get creative and put together something unique, personal and memorable.
For example, you could put together a unique collection of items in a basket or gift box, such as her favorite candy, tea or coffee, a cozy blanket, a book she’s been wanting to read, and some uplifting quotes or encouraging cards. You could also customize something special that she would love by having an item engraved with her name or initials. Or perhaps consider creating a fun memory box full of photos, mementos and keepsakes from your happy times together. There are so many possibilities!
So this holiday season, if you're stuck on what to gift the woman in your life, think outside the box. Steer away from the generic gifts she's likely to regift to you, and get creative. If she loves the things you hate, chances are she'll love the gifts you get her, too.