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100 Questions To Ask Your Partner On A Date Night

Many marriages and relationships go through tough times because both partners become too busy and forget to spend intimate time together to rediscover their other half. From busy and crazy work schedules to taking care of kids to living together and knowing your routines, all these and more can make partners gradually drift away. 

Moreover, if they are willing to make it work and rekindle the love they once had for each other, they can do so by going on date nights. On these date nights, instead of only drinking and eating, you can ask each other questions. The questions can be about childhood memories, future plans, intimacy, and so on. 

You probably don't know everything about your partner. There will always be a detail, story, or past experience you’ve never heard of. So, rediscover your partner and learn about what makes them tick using the 100 questions listed below.                                                                           

Childhood Memories: 10 questions to ask your partner

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#1 Who was your first kiss?

#2 Who was your first crush?

#3 Who was the first person to have a crush on you?

#4 As a teenager, did you ever rebel against your parents?

#5 Which of your parents did you go to when you wanted to talk?

#6 Who was your favorite teacher when you were a child?

#7 Who was your best friend when you were a kid?

#8 What’s the most scared you ever felt as a child?

#9 Who’s the closest person to you in your extended family?

#10 Your parents would freak out if they knew you once…

Old memories: 10 questions to ask your partner 

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#11 What's the dumbest thing you've ever done?

#12 Have you ever cheated on a past partner?

#13 How many serious relationships have you been in?

#14 Is there anything you regret doing or not doing in a past relationship?

#15 How did your past relationship(s) end?

#16 Have you ever been in an open relationship?

#17 What happened on your worst date?

#18 What have you ever chickened out of doing that you'd like to do now?

#19 Where is the most unexpected place you've ever had sex?

#20 What is the best present you’ve ever received?

10 questions to reveal your partner’s belief 

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#21 Do you believe in God?

#22 Are you religious or spiritual?    

#23 What religion do you believe in?

#24 What Do You Value Most In Life?

#25 What's your philosophy in life?

#26 What's the one thing you would like to change about yourself?

#27 Are you monogamous?

#28 What do you think about family?

#29 Do you want to have kids in the future? 

#30 Are you an optimist, a pessimist, or a realist?

10 questions to reveal what your partner thinks about you

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#31 What is it that you love about me the most?

#32 Do you think I’m more of an optimist, a pessimist, or a realist?

#33 Did you imagine then… we would be where we are today?

#34 What is your favorite memory of dating me? 

#35 What is your favorite memory of us?   

#36 What about our relationship makes you really happy?

#37 If you had one word to describe our love, what would it be?

#38 When Was The Last Time You Felt Close To Me?

#39 If you could change anything about me, what would it be?

#40 What can I do to show you how much I love you?

20 questions to ask your partner about your relationship

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#41 What are your red flags in a relationship?

#42 Do you consider your partner your best friend?

#43 Do you think you can have multiple best friends or only one?

#44 Are you okay with your partner having a best friend of the opposite sex?

#45 What do you think about open relationships? 

#46 How often should we contact each other?

#47 Are you okay with long-distance relationships? 

#48 Would you be comfortable moving in together?                        

#49 Do we make each other better people?

#50 What goals do you have for the relationship?

#51 Are you ready to commit to a long-term relationship?

#52 Do you know what your love language is? And can you figure out mine?

#53 What do you think we need to work on the most in our relationship?

#54 When did you know you wanted to be monogamous with me?

#55 What is your favorite thing I ever did for a special occasion for you?

#56 When we hang out with friends, do I make you feel like you’re still my priority?

#57 When we are with my family, do I make you feel like you’re still my priority?

#58 Would you consider moving in together?

#59 What do you think about couples who are married but live in different cities?

#60 What do you think about couples who own a business together and spend all their time together?

10 questions to ask your partner about the future 

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#61 Do you want to get married?

#62 What's more important, work or family?

#63 When you think about the future, what do you imagine?

#64 Who will make the biggest decisions in the household?

#65 Would you follow the advice of your family before your spouse?

#66 Would you be willing to go to marriage counseling if we were having marital problems?

#67 Would you ever consider divorce?

#68 What are your views on saving money?

#69 What are your views on spending money?

#70 What’s your biggest fear about Marriage? 

10 intimate questions to ask your partner

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#71 Do you sing in the shower?

#72 What's your secret sexual fantasy?

#73 What's better, hugs or kisses?

#74 What do you find sexiest about me?

#75 What's your definition of romance?

#76 If we could have sex anywhere, where would you choose?

#77 Have you ever faked an orgasm—not necessarily with me, but in general?

#78 Would you rather have only morning sex for the rest of your life or strictly sex at night?

#79 Is there a type of outfit or clothes you find sexy that you'd like to see me in?

#80 Do you like playing with sex toys, or would you like to try them as a couple?

10 funny questions to ask your partner

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#81 What is the most embarrassing thing someone has caught you doing?

#82 What is the funniest dream that you had that you can recall?

#83 Will you make your best animal sound for me?

#84 Have you ever been streaking?

#85 Would you rather crank call or ding-dong-ditch your neighbor?

#86 What cartoon character am I most like?

#87 Do you know how to spell antidisestablishmentarianism?

#88 What is the cheesiest pick up line you’ve ever tried to use on a girl?

#89 If you were a biker, what would your biker nickname be?

#90 What is your worst habit?

10 questions to ask your partner to improve your relationship

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#91 What's something that you'd like to try but that you're too scared to try?

#92 Over the last five years, how do you think you have changed?

#93 What are the five things that you are most thankful for right now?

#94 What's something you wish we did together more often?

#95 What is something I could do to make you trust me even more?

#96 What things about me make you know I’m the one for you?

#97 Is there a personal goal you'd like to achieve in the next five years or so?

#98 Is there anything you've always wondered about me but have hesitated to ask?

#99 Do you have any deal-breakers, things that would make you seriously reconsider our relationship?

#100 What can I do to make sure you feel safe with me?

Pheew! This is a very extensive list of questions, but you are definitely going to exhaust this after 2 to 3 dates. Discover more questions to ask your partner using this card game. 

Better together card game for couples

Relationship Card Game for Married Adults or New Couples by J & A homes store is a 100 card deck game that contains 100 heartfelt questions to ask your partner. 

If you add the 100 questions listed above to the 100 heartfelt questions in this card deck, you will definitely understand your partner better. The topics explored in the card deck include a wide range of topics like family, romantic relationships, past memories, dreams, secrets, and goals. 

Our final say!

Be intentional about discovering your partner before you start a relationship with them, or work towards rediscovering your partner and spark your lost love. The questions in this article and the 100 heartfelt questions in the Date Night Games will help you know your partner more. So what are you waiting for? Set Up a date night and start asking these questions. 

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